How I Learned To Use Your Own Personality To Attract Golden Leads

Your Personal Power Weapon

Personal Power... the mere thought of those words make you feel empowered, wouldn't you agree?

People who convey their personal power are people who have mastered the fine art of Charisma.

Here are a few tips that can help you become charismatic. With practice, you can learn to exude self confidence and become the people person you'd like to be. The real secret is knowing what they are looking for, what really is their "turn on switch" then you never have to sell ever! here are a few hints, the major one is contained in this handy little book, page 51.

1. Be authentic and true to yourself.

Hypocrisy and selfishness can be perceived and will eventually drag you down. Be genuinely nice and interested in people.

2. Become an active listener.

Learn to listen and sympathize with people to earn their trust, appreciation and love. When people have problems they want to be listened to. This is why people go to therapy!

Active listening means not just hearing, but putting your heart into listening attentively. Make eye contact when the person talks to you. Your body language is also important. Nod in agreement when appropriate. Listen as if every word matters. You will earn "brownie points" as they feel your empathy.

3. Learn to laugh out loud.

Not in a silly way, but by finding humor in small things and not being too darn serious about life in general. A person oozing with an awesome sense of humor attracts crowds and eventually, success. People like to be around happy and positive people! Also, learn to laugh about your own blunders. It will make you likable as you convey humbleness. People feel comfortable with a down-to-earth person. And the real secret is knowing what they are looking for, what really is their "turn on switch" then you never have to sell ever! here are a few hints, the major one is contained in this handy little book, page 51.

4. Practice random acts of kindness.

You don't have to be a millionaire to blow your savings to charity and be noticed. What truly matters are little acts of kindness. It doesn't need to be elaborated nor does it require prior planning. Be spontaneous and do it from the heart.

It can be a simple act like giving someone a flower, a phone call to ask how things are going or a word of encouragement for someone that's feeling down. Even helping a senior cross the street counts!

5. Be willing to change.

You must be willing to develop your personality openly. Focus on getting rid of bad traits and habits that may inhibit your growth. A charismatic person cannot be shy, grouchy, ill-tempered, or pessimistic. They do not snap at anyone, and know how to stay in control.

6. Develop self-confidence.

Be able to stride to the other corner of the room and introduce yourself to people with that winning smile of yours. Just remember to be confident, not arrogant.

7. Cultivate your relationships.

Your relationship with others should never be neglected. Be willing to go out and have fun with family and friends. Feeling happy around those who matter most to you will allow you to relax and practice all of the above points.

When you develop charisma you have an "edge" over others. You become powerful. People will feel drawn to you; they will trust you. You will feel like a magnet. People will look to you for leadership. They will try to emulate you, and this will allow you to influence them. The real secret is knowing what they are looking for, what really is their "turn on switch" then you never have to sell ever!

One major way I found to absolutely be irresistibly Charismatic is in this book on page 51!

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So today make a decision, that you are going to make going to these events a part of your MLM experience. Just say to yourself that you are going, then watch how it makes you feel in power! I know you can do it!

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